Jennifer Lopez talks fashion

Jennifer Lopez heats up the cover of \"InStyle\" magazine in a Givenchy by Riccardo Tisci top and skirt. Here is what the 43year-old entertainer had to share with the mag: \"When I was maybe 15 or 16, I took a class at a modeling agency, but mostly I think my ability [to photograph well] is innate. And it\'s funny because I see that my daughter, Emme has it too, that something special. She knows how to play for the camera.\" On her style: \"I have a pair of Gucci boyfriend jeans that are full of holes, but I never throw them out. I wash my hair every few days to keep it from getting overworked and I uses moisturizer every morning and night.\" On love: \"The most important quality the man in my life should have is that he is sweet. I like the good guys. The hard part is that you never stop believing in love. You never stop. But that\'s also the best part. You never stop believing, and you never, ever give up.\" On surviving tough times: \"I live by the mantra that God doesn\'t give you anything you can\'t handle. It\'s not until something bad or difficult happens that you really get to grow. And then you realize that those difficult moments, the times when you feel pain, are when you do a lot of your growing. You realize: There\'s no reason to be terrified of things. Either way I\'m going to be OK.\" On being a parent: \"Of course I\'m the same as any parent. I feel the pressures of wanting to be a great parent and of wanting to do right by my children. I feel the pressure of knowing you can\'t be perfect even though you want to be. One thing I\'ve learned is being a mom or a dad is the most important job there is. It doesn\'t matter who you are. You have to embrace it for everything that it is.\"